Say Goodbye to your PDI (Personality Disordered Individual)

What's your PDI Misery Index? Please answer "Yes or "No" to the following questions:
1.	Do you find yourself frequently apologizing to a family member even though you know you did nothing wrong?	YES	NO
2.	Are you in a relationship in which "struggle" has become a way of life and where whatever you do is always wrong?	YES	NO
3.	Do these individuals bring out the worst in you and always put you on the defensive so that you feel used?	YES	NO
4.	Do you fall into any of these categories in your relationship?	YES	NO
	powerless -frustrated	YES	NO
	sucked dry -exploited	YES	NO
	always giving -manipulated	YES	NO
5.	Do you always have to explain yourself, but they never do?	YES	NO
6.	Do you ever get the feeling that they have the scene planned (how you're supposed to act) and if you don't do it their way, there's trouble?	YES	NO
7.	Do you feel that problems are always your fault and your rights come last? That your feelings are passed off as selfish?	YES	NO
8.	Do they ask you to talk about what's wrong but when you do, they cannot take any criticism? That if you say something negative, you're attacking, but if you say nothing you're to blame for not sharing?	YES	NO
9.	Do you often feel guilty and think that the cause of the problems in the relationship lies with you?	YES	NO
10.	Do they provoke you and then turn your feelings around on you?	YES	NO
11.	Do you constantly feel that the relationship would improve if only you could do better at making it work?	YES	NO
12.	Do you find yourself in a love/hate relationship where they continually promise to change their behavior but you find it never does?	YES	NO
13.	Do you keep telling yourself that they are not really like they behave and keep making excuses for him?	YES	NO
14.	Do you find yourself putting a lot of energy into keeping the illusion of the relationship rather than face how truly bad the relationship is?	YES	NO
15.	Do you feel like you're frequently talking to a child?	YES	NO
16.	Do you have the sense that whatever they say, they really never express their feelings? And that when they do talk, they're vague, general and turn things around on you?	YES	NO
17.	Do you really trust the person with whom you're supposed to have a close relationship?	YES	NO
18.	Do you wonder why nothing changes in your relationship… no matter what you do? Do they ever really change?	YES	NO
19.	Do you frequently hear "I can't take this anymore!" or something similar?	YES	NO
20.	Are they self-centered and egotistical? Do they talk down to you?	YES	NO
21.	Do they often play the 'victim' role in your relationship when really they do the victimizing?	YES	NO
22.	Do you feel like there is no "us" in the relationship That there's only me and "what I want" in regards to them?	YES	NO
23.	Do you frequently wonder why you stay with them? But still you do?	YES	NO
24.	Do you feel that you always have to give into them to keep the peace but they never give into you?	YES	NO
25.	Do they make you miserable?	YES	NO
	How many Questions did you answer YES TO:

Your PDI Misery Index:

If you answered "Yes" to 15-25 questions, you definitely have a relationship with a PDI.

If you answered "Yes" to at least 5-15 questions, it is very likely that a PDI is in your life

If you answered "Yes" to less than 5 questions, you are doing well in choosing someone in your relationship…or you're not being very honest in how miserable you really are.

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